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This article originally appeared on Microlearning<\/a>, our bite-sized online solution for leaders and individual contributors.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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When you work from home, you may find that home is no longer a haven from a stressful workday. Try these tips to keep both the work and home parts of your life running as smoothly as you can.<\/p>\n

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1. Make a detailed list of what you\u2019re worried about before you end your workday.<\/h2>\n

Research suggests that writing down this information helps your brain let go of it before you transition to home life. Be as detailed as possible. For example:<\/p>\n

Poor<\/strong>: Brainstorm how company uncertainty might affect our projects.<\/p>\n

Better<\/strong>: Starting with the Avalon project, investigate: 1) what we might change (starting with adjusting the release date); 2) who I need to get input from to make an informed decision; 3) the cost-benefit of each possible change.<\/p>\n

With a less-detailed list, you prime your mind to generate relevant thoughts throughout your evening to fill in the gaps, interrupting your recharge time. Whereas a detailed list may reduce the likelihood of worrying before you start work the next day. Or, if you do end up having additional work thoughts, at least they\u2019ll be more specific (e.g., I should see what Piyush thinks about Avalon)\u2014something you can quickly jot down before returning to your home life.<\/p>\n

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2. Devise an end-of-day routine to create mental space from work.<\/h2>\n

Even if you\u2019re just closing your laptop to transition from work life to home life, there\u2019s plenty you can do to make that shift a clear one. Depending on your situation, you could cool off with a quick workout, take a walk around the neighborhood, do a family activity, call a friend or relative, read a novel for 30 minutes, or anything else that helps your mind shift gears to home life.<\/p>\n

Want to be sure you stick with it? Set an end time for your workday and schedule your transition routine for that time\u2014with another person, if possible. If you know that someone is anticipating your attention at a certain time, you\u2019ll have extra incentive to be productive throughout the day so that you can stop work in time to keep your commitment.<\/p>\n

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3. Establish work-free zones and times at home.<\/h2>\n

Many people already find it challenging to resist spending their evenings pounding away on their computers or checking work email on their phones. In times of uncertainty, restricting yourself may be even harder\u2014some people focus on the work they know and can control as a way to avoid dwelling on the turbulence around them. Others may fear for their jobs and want to put in long hours to show they\u2019re indispensable. Even if it makes sense for you to temporarily work longer hours, you\u2019ll still need to turn off at some point each day.<\/p>\n

Determine whatever rules work for you and your household: Maybe it\u2019s no working past 6 p.m. or no business at the dinner table or no checking email except at one designated time each evening. Consider also banning screens from your bedroom\u2014most sleep experts agree that the extra light and mental activity can disrupt sleep. And enlist your household to help enforce the rules, whether that means just pointing out your infractions or requiring you to pay a fine to the family fun fund.<\/p>\n

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4. Block out time in your work calendar for home events.<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019re the type who lives by your calendar or your colleagues rely on your calendar to determine when you\u2019re available, this tactic can help you commit to and focus on home life activities\u2014like walking the dog, watching a movie with your kids, or unclogging the sink\u2014and not on habitually checking emails or taking work calls at home.<\/p>\n

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5. Suggest email off-hours for yourself and your team.<\/h2>\n

Even in normal times, many people feel pressure to respond quickly to emails they receive during their off hours. So, they may feel especially compelled to do so in fearful times. When you suggest setting an expectation that no one on the team send or respond to messages during specific times (except in emergencies), you\u2019ll help promote positive work\/life boundaries and also potentially free yourself to focus more on what\u2019s going on at home.<\/p>\n

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6. When you complain about work to your partner, be explicit about what you want from the conversation.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s a classic relationship dynamic (and a chief complaint of respondents in our survey of 200 people about how their partner\u2019s job hurts their home life): You unload about your work frustrations, then ignore or get upset with your partner\u2019s advice. It\u2019s also simple to improve.<\/p>\n

Often, the friction comes from a misalignment on the purpose of the conversation: One person wants to vent and the other sees it as an ask for help. As one survey respondent put it: \u201cFor a long time, I didn\u2019t understand that he was just complaining to complain\u2014that people complain about things that they don\u2019t really want fixed.\u201d<\/p>\n

For a healthier dynamic, try employing respectful communication techniques recommended by relationship and leadership experts alike:<\/p>\n

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  • Ask if this is a good time to share a frustration. The moment your partner walks in the door or the moment you finish a difficult meeting is rarely a good time.<\/li>\n
  • Include the amount of time you think it will take (and stick to it).<\/li>\n
  • Let your partner know what you need from the conversation, whether that\u2019s just someone to vent to, validation of your feelings, or help solving a problem.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    For example, \u201cWould it be OK if I talk about a frustrating meeting for five minutes? I just want to vent\u201d <\/em>or \u201cDo you have 10 minutes? I could use your advice on a work problem \u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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    7. Establish a network of people with whom you can talk through work-related issues.<\/h2>\n

    Sure, it\u2019s easy to default to sharing work problems with the people you talk with most when you\u2019re not working\u2014your friends and family. But work peers, mentors, or other colleagues may be better equipped to offer more nuanced understanding and advice, since they\u2019re more familiar with your workplace and industry. And, by tapping those in your work sphere, you\u2019ll spare your friends and partner\u2014and preserve your free time for nonwork-related topics.<\/p>\n

    When you connect with colleagues about work issues, just be sure you\u2019re actually asking for and listening to their well-intentioned advice, not merely having an unproductive gripe session.<\/p>\n

    Finally, remember that during times of company or economic uncertainty, it\u2019s even more important to check in, gauge how people are doing, and share experiences and strategies for coping. So, consider adding peer check-ins to your calendar.<\/p>\n

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    8. Directly address a work issue that\u2019s causing you frustration.<\/h2>\n

    In our survey of 200 people about how their partner\u2019s job hurts their home life, respondents spoke of the stormy moods that roll in with their partners after work\u2014\u201csnappy\u201d and \u201cirritable\u201d attitudes that often spark fights and take a toll on the household. \u201cIt inhibits my ability to relax after my own<\/em> long, hard day,\u201d one said.<\/p>\n

    One obvious but not-so-easy solution: Work on improving whatever crummy situation at work is causing you tension. Keep in mind that you may not need to fully solve a problem in order to relieve stress. For example, if you\u2019re worried that a teammate won\u2019t deliver work you need on time, simply asking \u201cHow\u2019s it coming with that deliverable?\u201d<\/em> may be all you need to do to learn that the person is dealing with schedule overload or has misaligned priorities\u2014clarity that can relieve your frustration and enable you both to find an appropriate solution.<\/p>\n\n\n

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